What do you think of BDSM?

Each to their own.
I know when 50 shades came out my wife wanted to try some tame things that interested her but for me I like a little harder. I have been a fan of the Kink website for sometime and i am gently introducing things into our bedroom.

The biggest thing is comfort and taking it slowly if there is any trepidation of certain things. Depending on your partner it may be a short conversation in the bedroom at the very least. it is also good to establish boundaries early in the relationship and have open discussions about this with you partner.

Nah, not my thing personally. I'm fine with choking/slapping/hitting/restraining someone if that's what she's into though, I'm a team player.

I bought a ball gag for an ex once too haha.

But I don't get any personal gratification from it besides the general gratification you get from pleasing a partner.

(Tip: don't forget your safe word look what happened to Jesus.)

So long as I'm not the one being tied up them I'm all for it. I even used to have a cushioned paddle.

I kind of want to be sexually dominated me but it's hard to be respected after. Never tried.

Depends on who you are doing it with, because it is a very broad aspect. Yes me and my SO enjoy the playing in the bedroom, but we also know what we like and how rough we can be. Some go for the extreme with bleeding and cuts.

Vanilla is nice but boring. Add spice to life*!



*only when both parties agree and use safety measures that include safewords

11-11-2019, 11:29 PM

Arter Wrote: Vanilla is nice but boring. Add spice to life*!



*only when both parties agree and use safety measures that include safewords

^ I love this legalistic tagline

Nah, not my thing personally. I'm fine with choking/slapping/hitting/restraining someone if that's what she's into though, I'm a team player.

I bought a ball gag for an ex once too haha.

But I don't get any personal gratification from it besides the general gratification you get from pleasing a partner.

(Tip: don't forget your safe word look what happened to Jesus.)

Each to their own, but for the love of god don't expose your kids to your lifestyle or something.