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How do I tell a girl I like her without jeopardizing our friendship?

Submitted by PAiNnoob, , Thread ID: 185924

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07-11-2020, 10:47 AM
This post was last modified: 07-11-2020, 10:47 AM by PAiNnoob
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[font="Noto Sans", Arial, sans-serif]So in the past few months I've become friends with this girl, and we have gotten closer. I have started to get feelings for her and think the she somewhat feels the same way. I'm not sure if she does though. How do I tell her that I have feelings for her without jeopardizing our friendship[/font]

RE: How do I tell a girl I like her without jeopardizing our friendship?

#2
Tell her you like her, and just hope that it will be ok. The worst possible outcome is getting friend zone. Welp Good luck

RE: How do I tell a girl I like her without jeopardizing our friendship?

This post was last modified: 07-11-2020, 03:31 PM by Taiga_Jakob
#3
Nur zu sagen, dass du sie magst, ist nichts Schlimmesyou just mustn't overreact

RE: How do I tell a girl I like her without jeopardizing our friendship?

#4
Just go and tell her. You don't need any tuition classes for those kinds of things. Just be confident. Girls like confidence.

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#5
Basically what everyone else is saying is right. Just nut up and go ask. Be confident about it, but also be ready to handle a no and then keep on as if nothing happened. Also don't ask if you can date, instead go ask something like "Hey, when are you free next, want to grab a drink or get coffee?" Keep it natural, keep it simple, but most importantly, keep it to just the two of you. If a yes happens, cool, let the thing happen. If it goes well, before you part, ask if you can do it again in the near future, make it clear that you are looking to do more one on one things and then let it all progress naturally.

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#6
Welcome to taking a risk, its something you have no choice but to do.


No matter how smooth you are, sometimes it just changes it regardless.

Decide if its worth it.

RE: How do I tell a girl I like her without jeopardizing our friendship?

#7
I mean, i hate to say it but theres only one way to find out! The number of times I havent told a girl i like her but then years later she then asks me ?btw, how come you never asked me out - its a travesty! So yeah, just be humble about it, and tell her that you cant control how you feel about her. See what she says. IF she doesnt feel the same, be chill about it and do not make thing awkward by treating her mean or anything like that.

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#8
You don't! Just tell her, but don't act like a douche or creep afterwards if you get friend zoned.

RE: How do I tell a girl I like her without jeopardizing our friendship?

#9
just give it a shot and don't be a pussy bro. worst she'll say is no

RE: How do I tell a girl I like her without jeopardizing our friendship?

#10
dont tell her. just think about her every single day before you fall asleep (this works for me)

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