I have an underage girlfriend...

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22-06-2019, 02:01 PM

cheapalts Wrote: So hey y'all,

I am currently 19 years old and I have a girlfriend who is 16 years old. We really like each other, and we would like to take it to the next step. But since she is underage, I don't know what the consequences would be. Maybe we will break up, and out of anger she'll tell the police that I slept with her, so I don't want to risk it. Any suggestions on how I should handle this?

Thanks

I would recommend you cut that relationship short, stay friends if you like. That's probably not a problem you want to deal with for the rest of your life... Hate, judgement, abuse etc.... or a normal life moving on with new experiences. It is your choice.

Just don't answer to anyone by any name that rhymes with Shmis Fanson and you'll be fine

So the relationship falls within the acceptable limits of the creeper gauge (half age +7), and I assume that either you're both in HS or she is but you're post HS.
Basically you have to worry about two different things, legal ramifications and moral ramifications.
I don't know where you live, but age of consent laws vary by state/country. Additionally, there are exceptions/loopholes based on when the relationship started, parental permission, etc. Look them up for your region.
As for moral, the general concerns with big age gaps are that there is something abusive going on, either in terms of you manipulating them into wanting to fuck you.
I can't speak to your specific situation, but if you two are in an actual relationship and you're not just trolling for JB, you can find a way to make it work.

If you are afraid she'll accuse you of rape if you break up, then make sure you take things slowly, and that you let her take the first steps. If you honestly can't trust her enough to get over this hurdle, it is a sign that you guys' relationship is a little borked...

Don't do what you can regret.
Love is a feeling that doesn't have to be satisfied with the "next step". On the contrary, the longer you go to this step, the clearer your real goals in this relationship are. Because if you move too quickly to the "next step", then you risk falling not into harmony of characters, but ordinary love for the sake of the "next step".

I think you need to realize young girls also carry old problems that they never have addressed on their lifes and they expect you to fix them, you need to be careful and respect her. I would tell you to wait until she is older until you make any physical advances and focus on building the relationship strong

22-06-2019, 02:01 PM

cheapalts Wrote: So hey y'all,

I am currently 19 years old and I have a girlfriend who is 16 years old. We really like each other, and we would like to take it to the next step. But since she is underage, I don't know what the consequences would be. Maybe we will break up, and out of anger she'll tell the police that I slept with her, so I don't want to risk it. Any suggestions on how I should handle this?

Thanks

Check the Laws in your area most likely OK. Age of consent may very well be 16 also may have a stipulation like provided older partner is not more than x number of years than the minor. Buddy and his wife were in the same boat and they have now been married for 15ish years

You should've kept this in the drafts chief, i wish you the best tho you gonna need it.

Stop and rethink your life decisions right now man really

Beware, don't play too much with the law haha
I think it's ok only if you fully trust it, don't take any extra-risk