Looks? Or Personality?

Soo this is one that intrigues me...

I've seen a lot of people who say things like... "looks don't matter" or... "looks fade" or... "people that go for looks are shallow"

So what do you guys think... Looks? or Personality?

For me, it's looks, the very idea of kissing a woman i'm not attracted to makes me feel ill, sure she may have a brilliant personality and really funny... but to me that's what you call a friend.

It's always going to be both playing in to it never just one side of it

I've seen a lot of people who say things like... "looks don't matter" or... "looks fade" or... "people that go for looks are shallow" yeahh

Yeah I personally would try to go for a mixture of both but if it would come down to strictly looks or personality I think I would choose looks.

It has to kinda be like a mix of it

50/50 to me, I mean we can't pretend we're not looking for someone at least average considering you need to be attracted to your partner to properly know how to love them (in my opinion and basing on my relationships), but they should also have a good personality, you just can't live with a monster for the rest of your life.

The ultimate philosophical debate, peak dilemma

Going to be honest here, looks are a priority. You can't force attraction. I can get along with most personalities unless the person in question is mean-spirited.

Obviously both are important, however, in the end, personally matters more to me.

are you serious? what a shallow question