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Advice Needed Why do girls not like me?

Submitted by StormSilverA, , Thread ID: 254944

RE: Why do girls not like me?

#21
It's great that you're expanding your interests and trying new things! Here are a few tips that might help you connect better:

Be Authentic: Be yourself and let your genuine personality shine through. People appreciate authenticity.

Confidence: Confidence (not arrogance) is attractive. Work on being comfortable with who you are.

Common Interests: While expanding your tastes, also focus on activities you truly enjoy. You'll naturally meet people with similar interests.

Communication: Develop good listening skills and show genuine interest in others.

Self-Improvement: Focus on personal growth. Confidence and positivity often attract people.

Social Activities: Join clubs, groups, or events where you can meet new people in relaxed settings.

Remember, building meaningful connections takes time. Keep being patient and persistent

RE: Why do girls not like me?

#22
Be yourself and the right one will notice don't be desperate

RE: Why do girls not like me?

#23
just be you. the right one will come

RE: Why do girls not like me?

#24
I mean just try to approach them with confidence listen to what they are saying. Be a little funny or creative. You’ll find your match and remember every girl’s not for you. So don’t get discouraged

RE: Why do girls not like me?

#25
maybe u need to focus yourself for improvement in the future, and the other girls like u someday

RE: Why do girls not like me?

#26
It sounds like you're putting in effort to connect with people, which is great! Here are a few tips:

Be Yourself: Authenticity is attractive. Don't change who you are just to impress others.

Confidence: Believe in yourself. Confidence is magnetic.

Listen: Show genuine interest in others. People love to feel heard and understood.

Expand Your Interests: It's awesome that you're exploring new music and shows! Keep doing things you enjoy and you'll naturally meet like-minded people.

Patience: Relationships take time. Keep being kind and open, and the right connections will come your way.

You've got this! Just keep being your awesome self. 😊👍

RE: Why do girls not like me?

#27
You need to build genuine confidence within yourself. When you do this, you build an impenetrable aura around yourself, women can feel it too. You can build this confidence by
- making a lot of money, (in your control)
- becoming fit and disciplined, (in your control)
- or doing challenging things on the regular. (in your control)
- having a big di*k, (not in your control)

Women who like you will most likely not approach you unless you Ooze in the things I listed above. (the one that do aren't the ones you usually want anyways imo). So don't be afraid to approach women with a genuine compliment. Try not to be too basic. Women hear that they are cute or pretty all the time. Learn to read body language so you can tell if she's feeling you or not OR if you should back off. IF she is feeling you, ask for her number and keep the conversation short. If you can make women laugh, you're really green.

Once you get a girl's number don't spend all day trying to text her (NEVER DOUBLE TEXT). There's plenty of thirsty guys in girls' phones you don't want to become another. You have to stand out and be decisive. Send 1 message introducing yourself. Once she responds either let her know that you prefer to facetime/video chat for more intimate conversations. Next you want to plan a date asap. During your call found out her hobby's and what she likes. This will be great to use when planning a date. Remember you need to plan this date. Don't leave it up to women, women love to be surprised and new experiences.

RE: Why do girls not like me?

#28
yeah , i have the same question but working on it

RE: Why do girls not like me?

#29
just try to talk to them, and ask yuh know you.

RE: Why do girls not like me?

#30
These hoes don't deserve you bro, focus on yourself and eventually the right ones come along. Never try to change yourself over a chick

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