Serious How to get girlfriend

Well i hope im not getting banned for this question because i do know, that i have to challenge this alone but i still wonder myself is there something like an codex or an guide which can help me?

regards

best thing to do is and this is no lie, be funny and have a good sense of humour, girls love it and everyone likes to laugh. Also look after yourself. As in appearance. So stay clean get some fashion sense and look good. If you look good you will feel good and confidence shows with girls and girls like confidence.

26-02-2018, 02:04 AM

Tomu Wrote: best thing to do is and this is no lie, be funny and have a good sense of humour, girls love it and everyone likes to laugh. Also look after yourself. As in appearance. So stay clean get some fashion sense and look good. If you look good you will feel good and confidence shows with girls and girls like confidence.

^This. Be nice, and understandable. Do not lie , girls hate liars. Cough. Just a small note, "over confidence" is annoying/turn off.

The best guide to discover is that there is no guide. You just need to be relaxed and chill. Be true to yourself and the situation. Either the chemistry is there or it isn't. You cannot force it. Don't act too keen and be patient. The best way to be interesting and attractive to someone else is to be busy with your own hobbies and interests and to enjoy what you are doing.

Also be realistic when it comes to physical attractiveness. 10's date 10's. If you're an 8, you might get lucky with a 10. If you're a 6 or below, you're asking for a miracle or you have lots of money...

I don't mean to sound like a dick, but if you set the bar too high, you're guaranteed to fail a lot more than if you set a reasonable target.

My best suggestion would be to not force it. It's a major turn off for any girl. Also, you don't want to be in a relationship which did not come naturally. That's to say you don't want to be with someone where you have to act any differently then who you are. It took a long time for me to find someone because I would always force it. When I gave up it kinda just happened.

Instead of trying to look for happiness from someone else you need to look for happiness from yourself. If you rely on someone else for your happiness you put a burden on someone else and it's not OK to let someone else carry your happiness. Love yourself and you'll find someone who will love you. Love attracts love.

26-02-2018, 09:22 AM

draugert Wrote: My best suggestion would be to not force it. It's a major turn off for any girl. Also, you don't want to be in a relationship which did not come naturally. That's to say you don't want to be with someone where you have to act any differently then who you are. It took a long time for me to find someone because I would always force it. When I gave up it kinda just happened.

Instead of trying to look for happiness from someone else you need to look for happiness from yourself. If you rely on someone else for your happiness you put a burden on someone else and it's not OK to let someone else carry your happiness. Love yourself and you'll find someone who will love you. Love attracts love.

Wise words my friend

People created apps to find a gf and you still dont have one wtf
Okay tbh finding the perfect gf is kinda hard the only way is to find a girl you like dont be stupid but be funny start to be kind give her some good gift (go on wish its cheap but the delivery is really long tho) then prepare some comdoms ? and here you go, now you have a gf and you can sex her some time to times?
Or ask a girl in a bar to come to your house and cuff her to the bed drug her and sex her every time you want ?jk dont please dont do that

26-02-2018, 07:57 AM

Akihisa Wrote: ^This. Be nice, and understandable. Do not lie , girls hate liars. Cough. Just a small note, "over confidence" is annoying/turn off.

i think in general people dont like cocky people.

Alright my man, girls aren't real.

Sometimes you have to face the facts and come to the realization that everyone is a dude