So... I've been thinking lately it's been almost a year since I've had sex or any kind of sexual relationship. This is pretty crazy for me as I went from sex almost every weekend to being in a relationship(even more sex) I do not date often(personal preference) so that's also pretty crazy. Now since I've been single I haven't actually had sex... It's probably been over a year by now! I've had plenty of chances and could probably get it in a day if I wanted it but I just feel like I can't be bothered with it anymore. Sometimes I arrange to meet up with a few people but then once it's arranged I usually ditch out. It seems like it's more about the challenge and once I've completed the challenge I'm no longer interested.Maybe my relationship has changed how I am. Just wanted to create a post about this to get other people's perspectives!
After we went sex crazy in my first relationship, things just got boring because we'd done everything. Sure it'd exciting and all, but it's just far too dangerous and that took over the fun for me... She was a bit kooky so who knows what she could have done lol I haven't had sex in a year or so as well now, and I've had a few chances for a relationship, though if sex is in the future I won't specifically refuse it.... But Its not something that'll drive me into a relationship
"It never hurts to keep looking for sunshine" - A. A. Milne
I haven't any sexual relations with anyone for 8 months now, I'll probably try going for a year too why not lol. I just don't feel like it and I am pretty lazy.
Im in a full time relationship now! and our sex has dropped, its probably once a month! we do all the other things but the sex has dropped! hopefully its cuz of our 1 year old son coming in to it and not me losing my sex skills