Is being lesbian/gay bad?

30-04-2019, 04:41 AM

herodd Wrote: Definitely nothing wrong with being attracted to the same sex. I'm a lesbian, and I've spent my life having people tell me what I'm doing is immoral. In fact, my last girlfriend and I had to break up because her family is incredibly catholic and we were afraid we'd get caught. The reality is that homosexuality is perfectly natural, and actually quite common throughout nature-- not just with humans. There are several theories regarding why it exists in nature, but one of the most common ones is that in social groups (such as wolf packs), only the alpha pair is meant to have offspring. Since they still need other adults to help support and raise the young, homosexuals are crucial to the group's survival since they would not have the same inclination to reproduce, and therefore can focus on helping to raise the alpha's young. This is just one theory, however, and since humans have distanced themselves from the rest of nature, our reasons for the persistence of homosexuality might differ. It's a very interesting discussion, but as I previously stated, it's perfectly natural and there's absolutely no reason to be concerned for your friend <3

Wow. What a perfectly-articulated piece of sentiment. Kudos!

To avoid falling into the thank-you-spam category, I'd add my two-cents, which is really insignificant in the grand scheme of things: I am not homosexual but I am perfectly fine with others being that way. Being of a certain identity or living a certain way of life that does not involve compromising the equal right to live is perfectly fine in my books. Likewise, I do not have to identify as a homosexual to accept others who are. It's that simple to me really.

Nothing against them as long as they're not hurting other people. It's their life and their choice to live who they are.

If you have any issue with it, it's best to look internally and ask yourself why you have the issue. I dont think theres anything wrong with being against something as long as you are secure in your reason for being against it, if that makes sense. But dont hate things just because of a gut feeling.

Nothing wrong with it. Life is short, who cares who someone else loves. I find it very disturbing that you can be killed/jailed for life for being gay in a lot of places. Laws should be put in place to help people, not harm them.

I am men. and don't like Gay or lesbians. it's not a normal relation.

No I dont think its bad at all. I personally dont mind the LGBTQ community. I just dont like when others try to force me to like them. I will respect them, but I will not give them extra special treatment. Thats my outlook. Everyone should be able to love who they love, just dont be extra with it.

01-06-2019, 06:56 AM

WildFX Wrote: No I dont think its bad at all. I personally dont mind the LGBTQ community. I just dont like when others try to force me to like them. I will respect them, but I will not give them extra special treatment. Thats my outlook. Everyone should be able to love who they love, just dont be extra with it.

I fully agree with you man,
Lately seems that if you don't give them extra special treatman you are a homophobe...

Its not bad everone should live what they want to fill compleded

Everyone should live as they want, is the friggin state machine and religion who has indoctrinated us with conservative morals

Why ? The only thing that is bad to me, is forcing me to do/think something.
So let everyone do what they want, as long as it's not forcing you to do something you don't want to.