I am gay, I sucked my first dick when I was 9. was fucked the first time at 18, and again over and over throughout my lifetime. Do not have early sex. Wait, for as long as it takes. Wait for the person that you find so immensely attracted to that you don't see anything wrong with them, and you don't feel the need to change anything about them. key to a successful relationship and life. if you don't like your friends...find new ones.