Have you ffound your love ?

20-05-2020, 08:51 PM

Sativa Wrote: After my fiance passed away 6 years ago right next to me in her sleep i thought i would never find anyone nor love again.. months later, I found that special someone and now we have a baby boy that's 1 year old.

:( Thats really bad dude im sorry to hear that. I dont have anything to say about it :(

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20-05-2020, 09:20 PM

Oathkeeper Wrote: Ok, I hate to be the pessimistic one,but do hear me out.
It's fucking great that your old love might come back.Especially considering you made the fuck up and she is now cool with ya.

But,please allow me to say that clinging on to her might have been a grave mistake.
Like Sativa found that special someone after that terrible event,you could have found a loved one as well.The only difference,as I have interpreted it, is that Sativa was more open to new interactions,while you remained a bit more static,passive and clinged to the past.Such things make a character harder to reach and emotionally unavailable.

People are blinded by love sometimes and that's ok.But completely sealing your fate and refusing to even give the outside world a try is faulty as well.I don't say to forget about her,I haven't forger about my ex either and I will keep reminescing the time we had together(I broke up with her because she couldn't see that it was never going to happen-love blindness)

What's done is done and what I mostly want to say is : while you should try to make things work with her one more time,you shouldn't cling entirely and solely on that.Accept the fact that it's ok to move on if you think it's for the best.

And come-freaking-oooon.There areabout 7.6 billion people in the world.If at first you don't succeed, give it another shot.Such things are trial and error.

Love is jsut like a abyss. When you fell into it you cant go back. I fell in love with my childhood friend and i dont know how to tell her.

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20-05-2020, 09:20 PM

Oathkeeper Wrote: Ok, I hate to be the pessimistic one,but do hear me out.
It's fucking great that your old love might come back.Especially considering you made the fuck up and she is now cool with ya.

But,please allow me to say that clinging on to her might have been a grave mistake.
Like Sativa found that special someone after that terrible event,you could have found a loved one as well.The only difference,as I have interpreted it, is that Sativa was more open to new interactions,while you remained a bit more static,passive and clinged to the past.Such things make a character harder to reach and emotionally unavailable.

People are blinded by love sometimes and that's ok.But completely sealing your fate and refusing to even give the outside world a try is faulty as well.I don't say to forget about her,I haven't forger about my ex either and I will keep reminescing the time we had together(I broke up with her because she couldn't see that it was never going to happen-love blindness)

What's done is done and what I mostly want to say is : while you should try to make things work with her one more time,you shouldn't cling entirely and solely on that.Accept the fact that it's ok to move on if you think it's for the best.

And come-freaking-oooon.There areabout 7.6 billion people in the world.If at first you don't succeed, give it another shot.Such things are trial and error.

Love is jsut like a abyss. When you fell into it you cant go back. I fell in love with my childhood friend and i dont know how to tell her.