have you ever been cheated on?

Oh man... This might date me a bit... lol.

I was married to a guy for 9 years and 10 months. Never once do I remember it just being us two. There was always a side-chick. I still remained "loyal" though, unfortunately. Finally, I got fed up and asked one of his mistresses to just keep him. She agreed. a couple of years later, she did the same thing to one of his new side-chicks. He married this other woman, but has still been going to see other women.

Yeah yeah... "why are you still keeping track???" Well, because we have kids, that he ignores. The kids are all "of age" now, so it's not like they don't know what's going on. I don't sh!t-talk him or anything, because that is just bad form, but his actions towards them told them all they need to know. They are the ones that were most affected, but there's not a whole lot I could do other than the best I could.