Do you think there is love at first sight?

My vision is that love is a developed feeling, you nurture it.

So you can Lust at first sight, like at first sight and be attracted at first sight. But love takes time, and effort to actually feel. That way I believe anyone can love anyone, if they get along, spend time togheter, put effort into it. Thus that also invalidates "the one", at a deep level you choose who to love.

After the initial attraction, wanting to fuck her brains out and having tons of fun with a girl, it can take up to a few weeks for me to even feel that I love her. Sometimes that means the girl has decided I wasn't into her but then it wasn't worth it. So if you feel lust and attraction, you can go on and fall in love. But there is no "love at first sight" bullshit.