well anything that lacks form ,mass and energy can be only speculated upon and ultimately those speculations are of little importance my guess as to why people flame is that they don't understand that other people are trying there best to win [trolls excluded] but they sometimes make the wrong decisions because they thought those decisions were good ones looking at the aftermath it is clear that the decisions ware wrong and the flamer feels like that guy isn't trying as hard as he can so feels the need to express the anger at him in some cases he is trying to tell him what he did wrong but is too rough and the person just sees it as an insult well that's what i'd like to believe in reality people flame because they are arrogant self-centered pricks that don't realise that other people also have emotions and having some guy yell at you because you failed is really demotivating and will ultimately play worse because of it