So is the person in her family she is afraid of abusive? With that possibility in mind its possible she has been being completely forced to ignore you. She will eventually open herself up to contact again I am sure when she can. If there is nothing you can do then your going to have to wait it out. On the other hand muffin makes a good point. If its not meant to be its not meant to be. I would refrain as much as possible from getting emotional untill you know exactly whats going on otherwise your shooting yourself in the foot.
Essence in the mist, that is the shadow with the grip.
