Military RP is dying because the entire GMod community is fading a little, the mass RDM that happens very often from bored children, and people who don't bother playing it seriously. When you're playing any kind of RP, if you're going to do as the game says and Roleplay, you'll find that you enjoy it far more if you were to.
"It never hurts to keep looking for sunshine" - A. A. Milne