Well i have some friends who been there and done that,I can only say from conversations i've had with them.Some have told me that they've had an uncle brother or another family member touching them in some way or another.They've never told anyone and not to mention some of the things that are probably being told to them while they are being attacked. Some people also told me that they were just born like that you know some are male but feel female inside or raised by a bunch of women which i dont believe cause i've had friends raised by a bunch of women and isnt gay at all.I think you are who u are no need to change yourself completely this actually causes problems ie sexually because there will be some truth trust issues with a male.no trans is gonna come right out and tell you they are a male so that leads to a bad start right there with lying.I never understood transgender people even my friend during the day hes not dressed in female attire but at night he does i think they're just confused an need help finding who they want to be just as anyone else in life