Serious Your opinions on being "Born" a sexuality

I think most people know them selves better than their neighboors, friends or whoever who wants to speak their mind. If someone tells me they are born that way, it's fine. If they tell me they developed their sexuality a long the way it's fine. I really dont care. The only thing important from my point pf view iwho you are as a person. Feel sorry for the people who have a hard time beeing "different", could have been avoided if tolerance was more valued.