It really depends on what style of gameplay you are into, the most fun I've had in ArmA is running with groups doing large coops with like 50-80 players (fighting AI). For me that's the most fun ArmA gets - I have never been into the ArmaLife stuff, so can't comment on that. This is coming from someone with over a thousand hours in Arma 3 and about the same in Arma 2.