I'm coming close to 4 years with my boyfriend. We broke up for a few months for stuff I don't really want to get into, it was hard on both of us. We ended up getting back together, I really love him and he loves me but it's hard cause he can't tell his parents we're back together and I can't tell my dad. Coming up 6 months of being in a secret relationship. Woo. I don't recommend. We're just hoping one day everything will be ok.