what game mode you prefer

I personally enjoy spending time playing sandbox, building and talking to others and just having a good time. It's always nice to talk to others in a casual setting. Though, if you are looking for PVP or anything along those lines, there are some sandbox servers with that sort of thing enabled with weapons and other mods to make it more enjoyable. The server I spend the most on is Emperor Network that has a lot of great people behind it. I highly recommend their server!