It always depends on the player, for some players one server is fun, for other players not.
Still, I'm trying to give you some advice, (how it helped me) go to different servers for about 1-2 hours, and if you notice it is fun, then you stay longer, but if you're not enjoying it, then you just leave the server, and keep looking!
PS: I know my english isn't perfect, but i think that's understandable