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Advice Needed Relationships Question

Submitted by JimCricket, , Thread ID: 80555

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18-03-2018, 04:13 PM
#1
Alright, so I liked this one girl right, but the thing is she has a boyfriend. For the most part Ive moved on from liking her but like the thing is thats kind of hard when she comes over/we hang out at least 2 times a week and constantly talk. She tends to be naturally kind of flirtatious and like she said that she led her boyfriend atm on for a bit before getting with him but like Im not gonna chase a dead end right.

See now, the thing is, Im lw eyeing her best friend right now and would it make me seem hella desperate if I were to try and get at her? Her best friend doesnt have a boyfriend so its an available opportunity

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#2
Well no fucking clue but good luck with it. (Filleded)

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#3
Can you clarify something? Are you saying you like the best friend and would like to start a relationship?

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#4
If you don't have much attraction towards the girl, or you don't see things working out because of the situation, don't waste your time with her. There's already red flags that she's being flirtatious with you while she has a boyfriend. I say hit up the single girl, but don't do it if you're not really interested.

Ask yourself, Why are you seeking a relationship? Is it to be committed, or are you just trying to get your mushroom tip wet?

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#5
I'm assuming your question is whether you would look desperate or not. I don't believe so. You're single, no one can judge you for what you do or who you talk to, do whatever you want.

And I agree with Superman, make sure you want to be in a committed relationship with her before rushing into it.

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#6
here's the thing my dude. Been in a similar position NUMEROUS times! So... the fact that the friend is available is a bonus, but DONT smash! I repeat..DONT SMASH the homie!! what you can do is, or what I did was I lead the friend on (become a flirt). Girls talk..And if you start flirting with the friend a lot she'll start enjoying the attention and mention it to the lady you like. Pre-sellection is a beautiful thing lol. what you do from there is up to you Wink watch what those "visits" transpire to.
QUICK TIP: when you start advancing with a girl sexually, and she says "we shouldn't be doing this", agree with her, and withdraw all physical contact and go back to what you were doing before. Don't do it in a rude way though. Watch what transpires after this crazy move. Have a rubber close Wink
Let me know what happens. PM me if you have any further questions etc. Picking up women is a lifestyle for me, so I do this sorta thing a lot. I just love women and its fun trying to understand em lol

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