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08-09-2019, 12:56 AM
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Whats the best way to break up with someone? i have had a gf for about 3 months now, but im no longer feeling any attraction recently. how should i break up with her in a way that she wont be heartbroken

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09-09-2019, 12:52 PM
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Face to face gotta have that conversation just get it off your chest and take it from there.

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09-09-2019, 02:40 PM
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Heart break will be inevitable, whether you try mask kt with anger or not.. sometimes.. it's best to be brutal. Tell her to her face and tell her why it isn't working.Never do it on a text. She will get over it sooner than later this way. As soon as it's done, block her on everything for a while (Let her know your doing this), this will give her time and avoids any temptation to contact you to reconcile.

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13-09-2019, 06:12 PM
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The best way based on my experience and other experiences : just take your distance from her, you could pretend you are too busy when she calls. Just don't let her know you're breaking up with her. It will allow you to come back to her if you change your mind (it may happend even if u don't think of it now).
you will just hurt her feelings and she will hate you if you break up with her or tell her that you don't feel any attraction to her. let the time separates you.
If despite everything you decide to break up with her, don't do it by sms or phone (never). a man do it face to face.

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17-09-2019, 01:26 AM
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In person. But instead of straight up breaking up, express that you feel like you want to break up or that you want to be single. Mentally it has always been easier for me to end things using this mindset.

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17-09-2019, 02:43 AM
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Maybe you just pretend to die and then move to a different state.

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17-09-2019, 03:09 AM
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Be honest with them and tell them how you feel. Never just throw it all away because you might regain feel later down the line.

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17-09-2019, 09:46 AM
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There isn't really a "Best" way to break up with someone, but if you're going to break up with someone you should always get to the point and make it short.

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