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by Ecstasy - 22-02-2016, 08:27 AM
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Posted: 22-02-2016, 08:27 AM
Ok, So here I go about this shit.

So, Bullying. I personally haven't been bullied in like 5-6 years. But other people. That I know and the ones I dont know. I know it happens daily and It is honestly stupid. What makes a person want to be that low to another human. No one is any better than anyone else. I try my best to stick up for anyone I see getting bullied, And I like to think I have stopped a lot of problems. But bullying has gotten serious. When people are pushed to the point of them not wanting to go to school or even to the point of them wanting to die. That says something. And sure you can say only pussies want to kill themselves and that they are weak, But you never walked in their shoes. Odds are you have had it easy and thats why you say that, Everyone has a breaking point I dont care who you are. Back to the point. I know my voice wont do shit, I know 10000+ other people wont make a dent even, Why?, Because thats just how shit the world has become. I am honestly sick of people thinking the are better than other people and then even degrading others to lift their own ego.  Im done.




















Sorry I was watching Ellen and a bullying episode come on and I got pissed
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Posted: 22-02-2016, 08:36 AM (This post was last modified: 22-02-2016, 08:39 AM by kadza. Edit Reason: Ellen, from The Witch's House i men't on that anime lol i guess i watch to many )
(22-02-2016, 08:27 AM)Ecstasy Wrote: Ok, So here I go about this shit.

So, Bullying. I personally haven't been bullied in like 5-6 years. But other people. That I know and the ones I dont know. I know it happens daily and It is honestly stupid. What makes a person want to be that low to another human. No one is any better than anyone else. I try my best to stick up for anyone I see getting bullied, And I like to think I have stopped a lot of problems. But bullying has gotten serious. When people are pushed to the point of them not wanting to go to school or even to the point of them wanting to die. That says something. And sure you can say only pussies want to kill themselves and that they are weak, But you never walked in their shoes. Odds are you have had it easy and thats why you say that, Everyone has a breaking point I dont care who you are. Back to the point. I know my voice wont do shit, I know 10000+ other people wont make a dent even, Why?, Because thats just how shit the world has become. I am honestly sick of people thinking the are better than other people and then even degrading others to lift their own ego.  Im done.


Sorry I was watching Ellen and a bullying episode come on and I got pissed


First of all good anime choice  :D (If it's ellen from The Witch house)
And to answer your question why do people bully each other, well you can look it like this, ether you are strong or weak, strong pray on the weak that's just how world is, i personally have not been bullied but i mean there wore some people that did try and i find mental abuse far worse than physical, bruises heal fast but mental scars left can torment one for rest of his life. And that is the serious and main problem. Only recently i have taught my younger brother to cope with bulling and mental abuse, and it is not about how strong you are but what is your mindset.

TL;DR - It is all in the head.

Note: We all maybe bulling someone without realizing it so everyday good thing is to ask yourself how your actions are affecting other people around you.
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Posted: 22-02-2016, 08:43 AM
(22-02-2016, 08:27 AM)Ecstasy Wrote: What makes a person want to be that low to another human.

Insecurity. The fact that they have to go after "weak" or "easy" prey just so they can feel good about themselves and alleviate a bit of that pent up frustration.
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Posted: 22-02-2016, 08:49 AM
(22-02-2016, 08:43 AM)Stoic Wrote:
(22-02-2016, 08:27 AM)Ecstasy Wrote: What makes a person want to be that low to another human.

Insecurity. The fact that they have to go after "weak" or "easy" prey just so they can feel good about themselves and alleviate a bit of that pent up frustration.

I agree but, some people just enjoy watching other suffer, i've seen it and experienced it... Insecurity can manifest in many ways one of them is bulling but i find that today people just want other people to fail or let me rephrase it they don't want you to be better even if there is a gain for them in it. And that is imho one of the reasons of bulling.
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Posted: 22-02-2016, 09:01 AM (This post was last modified: 22-02-2016, 09:02 AM by Stoic.)
(22-02-2016, 08:49 AM)kadza Wrote: ....but i find that today people just want other people to fail or let me rephrase it they don't want you to be better even if there is a gain for them in it. And that is imho one of the reasons of bulling.

That's what insecurity is about. A bully doesn't consider what they gain from it as long as they see that the other person suffers/fails or not have any chance of getting better at something. They don't want you to be good/better at something...therefore, they are insecure of your achievements, big or small.

However, there are also really just some people who have issues in the head lol
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Posted: 22-02-2016, 09:33 AM (This post was last modified: 22-02-2016, 10:39 AM by kara. Edit Reason: typo )
My only experience with it was in 4th grade. My best friend at the time started getting really jealous of me, so he started to beat the shit out of me whenever I would come to his house. Eventually I got tired of it, so I punched him as hard as I could right in the middle of his face. He ended up getting a broken nose, but his parents never blamed me lmao. We hated each other after that up until about the eighth grade, then we made up.

I think people either bully out of jealously or do it to project their issues onto whoever they decide would be an easy target. That being said, bullies are often losers with low self-esteem and depression.
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Posted: 22-02-2016, 10:04 AM
(22-02-2016, 09:33 AM)loldongs Wrote: My only experience with it was in 4th grade.  My best friend at the time started getting really jealous of me, so he started to beat the shit out of my whenever I would come to his house.  Eventually I got tired of it, so I punched him as hard as I could right in the middle of his face.  He ended up getting a broken nose, but his parents never blamed me lmao.  We hated each other after that up until about the eighth grade, then we made up.

I think people either bully out of jealously or do it to project their issues onto whoever they decide would be an easy target.  That being said, bullies are often losers with low self-esteem and depression.

Glad to hear that you stood up for yourself Smile
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Posted: 23-02-2016, 02:35 AM
i got bullied in school, until I fought back, and lost. My bully still came at me 2 more times but each time he had to pay a price for it even though I lost and since then nobody ever fucked with me. People pick on easy targets, the best way to avoid getting bullied is to not let yourself become or be thought of as an easy target. Set your boundries, enforce them, and even if you go down you can pat yourself on the back knowing that you didn't just lay down and take it.
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