Everyone can be in a really bad mood. People who are really pissed off sometimes do things they actually don't want to do, but they do it in that situation.
If you don't like him, try to ignore him as good as possible. If you're getting in an argument too often you gonna be in a bad mood often as well and that results in an uncomfortable way of living in that house. Like a really bad atmosphere you know. I'm sure your mom want you two to be "friends", but as this isn't possible as you obviously don't like him, try to make the best out of it by ignoring him.
(10-10-2015, 10:26 PM)Harry Wrote: We moved house, so I get that he's stressed but jeez.
He told me to fuck off and fuck myself etc.
I repeated what he said lol. It's the biggest fight that we've had ever
Well he's pissed and you're pissed. When I'm pissed I'm saying things I actually didn't want to say too.
Just let him calm down and try to stand out of his way, worked for me many times. You don't need him, so you're not supposed to me super-friendly to him.
Yeh in my experience of people who go round looking for a fight is to not give them what they are looking for. Keep yourself to yourself, and then he really just looks like an angry fool whereas you are calm, and have the upper hand.
Hope it gets better, he is probably just mega insecure, and doesn't know what boundaries he has with you.
I've had a stepdad for a few years and I know how annoying this can be. There's an easy solution to piss him off really quick. It's also a win-win situation for you. (Atleast that's what I did)
Insult him, hoax him and literally do everything to piss him off. Why? When he's really pissed off, he's probably trying to hit you. Once he's at this state, just tell him something like "If you ever try to hit me, I'll go to the police. You're not my father." Most of the times this bitch will puss out.