Is being lesbian/gay bad?

I hope people who said it's bad changed their mind it's 2020 already

Definitely not, theres nothing wrong as long as you live yourself

14-11-2017, 09:36 PM

GAYGAY Wrote: im just wondering cause one of my friend is gay idk how should i react to it.

Is not bad, it's just not socially excepted yet

Well, as someone who identifies as gay, I'd have to say it's neither bad nor good... It just is. People have different tastes, they're going to like what they like, no matter the reason. My main concern(s) with pretty much any preference/orientation/identification are as follows: 1) Does it cause harm? 2) Are any involved parties willing, and able (both physically and mentally), to consent?

That said, your friend's sexuality is just a small piece of their whole being. They're the same person that they were beforehand, you just know a little more about them now.

No, there's nothing wrong with being gay, it's just another facet of the yuman experience
Sexual orientation is just another harmless characteristic that's associated with everyone

Personally I'm a homophobe, kinda a weird word becausei just don't like them, not scared of them. But this goes for everything in the lgbt community. I hate traps, trans, bi, gay, lesbian, you name it. I do make some controversial (yet effective) points. I will not go on a tangent about that tho because i know many people will take offense.

Its not your choose bro, i have in family gays and in friends, its not bad. I tolerate them

It is not bad, no matter your orientation or theirs. But as for your question, I guess you should ask your self, what kind of person are you?

As a friend, being supportive should be the first choice. Someone coming out is a huge ordeal. There are plenty of doubts and moments of self consciousness that comes with it. Realizing who you are and the idea that many people would not accept you or would want to do you harm is a scary thought. If they came out to you, they trusted you, or at the very least, value your opinion.

They are looking for stability, let them know that you are there for them as a friend.

14-11-2017, 09:36 PM

GAYGAY Wrote: im just wondering cause one of my friend is gay idk how should i react to it.

It's definitely not, I mean, think of it this way
1) does it harm you in any way
2) is it's sole purpose to offend
3) is it supportive tward something that fits under 1 and 2
If any of these are yes, it's bad
Being gay 100% does not

no? it's not like someone being gay makes them any different from a straight person, especially if it's just a friend of yours and not someone you're interested in?