Advertising a Server

7hoi think you should buy serveror hostinbg services if you cant set it up

One thing most servers do is make gameplay too easy. I used to run small server 4 years ago and lost intrest myself in running it.
I managed to run it for more than 3 years with always about 15-25 players logged in (my server pc could not handle more without lag).
Youtube videos about your server bring players in to try it but they only stay when they get helped and treated nicely by community.