Anyone virgin here ?

21-05-2020, 09:04 PM

Rizzo Wrote: Nope.
Although sometimes I wish I was.
I've never been seen as the innocent type, and I used to not care, but now I'm an "Adult" and not a "Teenager" anymore, I prefer to be seen as a good person.
My body count definitely doesn't imply that.

You are a good person, and how many peopleyou sleep with has no bearing on that.
I can only speak from a North American perspective but I understand how it's stressed to both men and women that it all means something, that some men believe they shouldn't be with anyone who has had a "higher count" then them, or how women after their 20's should for some reason look down on virgins but honestly, now that I'm an adult I can tell you that it's all meaningless.
It has as much bearing on who you are as a person as how many times in your life you've tied your shoes. Unless you allow it to rule your thoughts or dominate your personality, it's just another one of those things.
And the best part? People only know what you tell them, so if you think your date for the night is highly conservative, just lie or avoid the question, if your friends are bragging about their "numbers" then you're probably around a high school and I promise once you're out of that environment no one will ever care.
Ask ANY adult.
We don't sit around at bars bragging about how much pussy or dick we get, we're complaining about our jobs and/or neighbors. I could only tell you the sexual history of ONE of my friends and it's only because they're my best friend for years and tell me everythingand it effects literally 0% of our friendship.

None of it matters and there's no right or wrong timeline. It's what you're comfortable with and what you have fun with and there shouldn't be any guilt on either route as long as it's all consensual