Anyone virgin here ?

If you are looking for someone, then go to a Dating site. :lol:

Nope.
Although sometimes I wish I was.
I've never been seen as the innocent type, and I used to not care, but now I'm an "Adult" and not a "Teenager" anymore, I prefer to be seen as a good person.
My body count definitely doesn't imply that.

21-05-2020, 09:04 PM

Rizzo Wrote: Nope.
Although sometimes I wish I was.
I've never been seen as the innocent type, and I used to not care, but now I'm an "Adult" and not a "Teenager" anymore, I prefer to be seen as a good person.
My body count definitely doesn't imply that.

You are a good person, and how many peopleyou sleep with has no bearing on that.
I can only speak from a North American perspective but I understand how it's stressed to both men and women that it all means something, that some men believe they shouldn't be with anyone who has had a "higher count" then them, or how women after their 20's should for some reason look down on virgins but honestly, now that I'm an adult I can tell you that it's all meaningless.
It has as much bearing on who you are as a person as how many times in your life you've tied your shoes. Unless you allow it to rule your thoughts or dominate your personality, it's just another one of those things.
And the best part? People only know what you tell them, so if you think your date for the night is highly conservative, just lie or avoid the question, if your friends are bragging about their "numbers" then you're probably around a high school and I promise once you're out of that environment no one will ever care.
Ask ANY adult.
We don't sit around at bars bragging about how much pussy or dick we get, we're complaining about our jobs and/or neighbors. I could only tell you the sexual history of ONE of my friends and it's only because they're my best friend for years and tell me everythingand it effects literally 0% of our friendship.

None of it matters and there's no right or wrong timeline. It's what you're comfortable with and what you have fun with and there shouldn't be any guilt on either route as long as it's all consensual

I loose my virginity at 21years. And im with this boy at 6y ago

I'm a muslim and I obviously need to be a virgin until I marry.I'm actually secretly an atheist.Just admitting I'm muslim because it's pretty much what every modern muslim does to not get killed by people around them.Imagine believing in god just because you're getting old.Believe it or not,people only get serious in religion once they get old.All boomers I met said they also messed up/sinned too much/failed to realized their during their youth but what it really is just that they're scared of death caused by their age.Religion in 2020,smh.

Not a virgin anymore, but there is no rush. Just make sure you wrap it up so your first time doesn't end up with an unplanned pregnancy.

I'm not virgin anymore but guys, it's ok to be a virgin at 20 yo. Don't rush and find your love first!

Honestly, a lot of people fuss and worry about it all but there really isn't a rush to get into it. Frankly sex isn't life-changing and you really aren't missing out on much.

Been a long time since I was a virgin, and I have no interest in being abstinent in any way shape or form!