Anyone virgin here ?

23-05-2020, 02:01 AM

DylanDakota123 Wrote: I'm a muslim and I obviously need to be a virgin until I marry.I'm actually secretly an atheist.Just admitting I'm muslim because it's pretty much what every modern muslim does to not get killed by people around them.Imagine believing in god just because you're getting old.Believe it or not,people only get serious in religion once they get old.All boomers I met said they also messed up/sinned too much/failed to realized their during their youth but what it really is just that they're scared of death caused by their age.Religion in 2020,smh.

Yo I'm Muslim too - 23, UK. Before I dive into a tangent - yeah, we're required to be virgin before marriage. And I'm perfectly happy and accepting of that (for both religious and logical/emotional reasons).

Anyway, I'm virgin too, but fully trying me best to be practicing and believing. I've just graduated from masters at Uni and that's where I realised just how many Muslims are secretly non-believing, it's scary man.

My best friend at Uni lived with me for 3 years. Egyptian. We used to pray together every day, leave lectures halfway through for Jummah etc. etc. in the 3rd year, we kinda stopped praying together due to some falling out (still living together). I thought he prayed in his room. A few months later, he sat me down and told me he just no longer believes.
Kinda digressing from the thread here but just felt like typing it out lol. Still awesome friends but saddens me to see him like this (agnostic specifically, not Atheist). He can't even begin to imagine coming out to his parents one day. I just pray he finds his way back before then tbh