Unhealthy Relationship?

You both cant be depressed in a relationship, Someone has to be strong for the other. There has to be a rock or foundation. Everyone has depression, It's part of life, Some people have a more serious issue with it (mental illness) and yea the doctors can stuff them with medicine that "makes them happier" and just ends up drugging them out and stuff, Or they can talk to a counseler that doesnt understand them the way they want to be understood, From personal Experience, The only person that can help them is their self. But they need guiding (back to my mention about one person being strong) So all in all. I will answer your question with another question, Do you want to be that rock for her or no. Then again, Im with fady. I forgot my feelings a long time ago, so what do I know