More of an MySQL help thread then mybb

Okay well eh..

MySQL is taking all the ram, we have 1GB

and it's werid because I've ran a forum with more people, more members and posts, and less ram and it has never done that.

So pretty much we get an error saying "Lost connection to MySQL server during query"

And I know thats all MySQL. I'm not sure what to do. I installed xcache and now it's using 3.75 MB on an average basis instead of 9MB.

But still-- what the hell?

It's on a VPS by the way.

nginx using php-fpm with mysql.

A complete list of my applications

My my.cnf (mysql config)

please help its very annoying and just werid..


(5.3.10-1ubuntu3.17)Ubuntu 12 (64bit) using MySQLi 5.5.41

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@AmN @Aoki

Help me with this


http://i.imgur.com/SFGVn7y.png