Advice Needed how to figure out what a woman is mad about?

Ove been getting punished for months by my woman. One dsay shes okay, next she hatesmy guts she refuses to acknowledge anything is wrong but i fucked up, thats I obviously the message but im at a fuvking loss on how to fix it. I really love this girl but im fuvking going insame trying to figure it out. I feel like im.lost in a fog half the time. Abd suggestions would be welcomed.