Advice Needed how to figure out what a woman is mad about?

Ignore her, pretend you don't care. Spend time talking to one or two other women if you need to, if you struggle to do this. In my experience what you're going through is called a shit test. It's something females are wired to do to test their partners' abilities to protect children.

My suggestion is to do whatever it takes to stop being so bothered by her behavior. Play it off, play it cool, give yourself the things you need to make her seem smaller than you, not so front and center in your brain. She will get so frustrated that you have better things to do and other women to focus on that she will change her tune completely.

How about ask her? Have a real conversation?

it's a lost battle, probably everything you did since u met lol

You will not win in a war of words with a female my advice leave her be and let her calm down if she starts blaming you just say what she wants to hear or leave her altogether because that can be very taxing on the mind.

sounds like this is grounds for a breakup if this behavior is incessant, but if you genuinely don't know, be direct and ask her. being toxic back just makes both of you miserable.

That my friend is a hard one but the best way to tell is to know them as a person so when they’re acting differently you can tell

If talking doesn't work, maybe something more serious like couple's counseling because I do not think any person that does not have all the context can help with this

Invite her for a diner and bring flowers :p

maybe im noncholant and a bad person but if a woman cant communicate what she's mad about, especially when she doesnt even tell you when you ask her and try to talk to her about it. i'd just give her some space. we as men cant read minds.