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How to talk with someone if you don't share the same interests.

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17-07-2021, 11:51 AM
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I'm shy myself. Recently changed and got over social anxiety, but I still find it hard to talk with some people, especially if we are not sharing the same interests. And talking about regular things makes convo dead, and then there's just 1-word answer and convo dies.

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17-07-2021, 12:03 PM
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Try talk about any themes or ask him about his interests

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17-07-2021, 12:12 PM
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Just don't talk to him/her i don't know

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17-07-2021, 04:01 PM
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Find out his/her interests first then see if you are interested in their hobbys/themes and vice versa.

If not then it's quite a problem to have a decent conversation that doesn't end weird.

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18-07-2021, 07:17 AM
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honestly just create small talk until you find some common ground, ask about their weekend and what they did and from that slowly piece together what they like

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18-07-2021, 07:54 AM
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try talking about their interests to find something similar

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18-07-2021, 08:01 AM
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Joke around about something or show them a funny meme

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18-07-2021, 10:44 AM
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People ALWAYS have something in common with somebody else. Ask them more about their interests, until you both have something to talk about.

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18-07-2021, 02:00 PM
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18-07-2021, 07:17 AM
Zesto11 Wrote:
honestly just create small talk until you find some common ground, ask about their weekend and what they did and from that slowly piece together what they like

Thanks ^^, Means a lot <3

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18-07-2021, 04:46 PM
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You should just start talking about life, problems

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