Need some advice

Give her some space. Her family can never stop her if she wants you. You can stay like friend and go dates couple more times if it's possible. Even he is not attracted of you she will start to think about you when you don't call her.

Sounds like she is making up a bunch of bs excuses to get away from you, you sure you are not controlling/Sensitive because that is annoying.

Sounds like she is making up a bunch of bs excuses to get away from you, you sure you are not controlling/Sensitive because that is annoying.

Sounds like she is making up a bunch of bs excuses to get away from you, you sure you are not controlling/Sensitive because that is annoying.

So is the person in her family she is afraid of abusive? With that possibility in mind its possible she has been being completely forced to ignore you. She will eventually open herself up to contact again I am sure when she can. If there is nothing you can do then your going to have to wait it out.
On the other hand muffin makes a good point. If its not meant to be its not meant to be. I would refrain as much as possible from getting emotional untill you know exactly whats going on otherwise your shooting yourself in the foot.

12-02-2018, 01:19 AM

Charm Wrote:

Hey guys not the normal from me very sorry but need some advice

Me and my gf have been together for 6 months I've made so many moves on to her, and she does nothing back at all, not just that spent so much and now I'm starting to feelshe'staking it for granted the conversationsandthe same we don't ever see each other nowshe'sstopped staying over using the excuse that her parents btw she is 18 says she's scaredof someone in my family so there for she cannot stay, I'm honestly hurting so much right now I've never been like this and would like some serious advice, she ischoosing her family over me by every chance

Feels bad man just leave her and take it the easy way out it will be way better for you dude

deffo not controlling she lives so far away, it was nice when we spent so much time together now it's when she want's to we phone pretty much every night but it actually hurt so much hearing her say her say from her mum she can't trust some one in my family like wtf she don't even know us just controlling her daughter :(.

Well it sounds like from here you have 2 options.
1. Keep trying.
Or 2. You can except the loss and move on.
But I mean if she is 18 you never know. And honestly as much as one wishes a relationship at that age can work especially from long distance the chance of it lasting are a lot less. Sorry, I have been there so I know how you feel. But I think you know whats going on and how much control you actually have over the situation. Most likely there is nothing you can really do or say.

That's exactly the problem no control at all they moved her away to "their" home town not caring about what their kids wanted really drives me insane

I can relate to your gf. Her parents only worried considering its far away. Parents are always strict when it comes to their daughter(s) specially a only daughter. If she chooses her family over you... don't complain. I actually think parents is far important than bf or gf.
(Parents will always be there. They won't leave you and love you unconditionally unlike a bf or gf.) Parents only care what's good to their children. Its not controlling, they only make sure she is safe.


Also Try to understand her, if she can't come over then why not you come over to their house instead? Surprise her. Or askyour gf'sparents a permission (in person) to come over in your placeand let them know there's nothing bad will happen. Lets see ifthey will still disagree.
If she's scared in one of your family members, try to comfort her and ask her again why. be sincere and let her fell you are thr to protect her. You know, girls have a natural instinct/female intuition. Most of it is right so if she's scared in one of your family members then you should be worried..

Unless she only say those as a excuses then.. you should probably think the worst case scenario. (eg. breaking up, not love you anymore etc..)