Serious Girl I Like | Need Advice

So I've known this girl for about a year now. I live in America, and she lives in Croatia. She's not a girly girl, nor is she a tomboy. She's really big into Disney Movies, especially How To Train Your Dragon. Over the past few weeks I've started to grow feelings towards her. I think if I tell her straight up how I feel, that it wouldn't be the best. I don't know if she100% likes me yet. So what I was thinking is to kind of hint that I like her.I was thinking of maybe creating a custom romantic film score song, and including scenes from How To Train Your Dragon. I don't know, I just want her to know I like her, but don't want to ruin anything. Please help, thanks!

21-09-2015, 06:55 AM

xmxmusicrealm Wrote: I was thinking of maybe creating a custom romantic film score song, and including scenes from How To Train Your Dragon.

This will work for sure
Give it a try and let us know the results. But make sure that she won't think that you added the scenes from the movie just to impress her.

You should think about the future of the relationship. I'm sure you want to see her as often as possible, but croatia is far away from the US.

21-09-2015, 12:35 PM

zGeek Wrote:

21-09-2015, 06:55 AM

xmxmusicrealm Wrote: I was thinking of maybe creating a custom romantic film score song, and including scenes from How To Train Your Dragon.

This will work for sure
Give it a try and let us know the results. But make sure that she won't think that you added the scenes from the movie just to impress her.

I'll be sure to share the video here before I show her. The two main characters Hiccup and Astrid have a thing going, but aren't actually a couple. The directors said that HTTYD 3 will be when they get together. So I think that's a good connection :spooky:

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21-09-2015, 01:23 PM

Aoki Wrote: You should think about the future of the relationship. I'm sure you want to see her as often as possible, but croatia is far away from the US.

Yeah true, thanks for the advice :glasses:

21-09-2015, 08:33 PM

xmxmusicrealm Wrote:

21-09-2015, 01:23 PM

Aoki Wrote: You should think about the future of the relationship. I'm sure you want to see her as often as possible, but croatia is far away from the US.

Yeah true, thanks for the advice :glasses:

Long-distance relationships fail most of the time, but I'm sure you already know that.
It might hurt, cause it's not going how you wanted it. As of now, you're in love with this girl, so you're going to do everything's possible to reach the goal what you want to have - to be with her.
But after some time (2-3 months) of your relationship you may get sad, because you're not able to see her as often as you want to.

From my personal experience, it's always better to end some things as soon as possible, because otherwise, it'll just hurt you more and more after some time and it's not easy to get out of this doom loop.

I'm not trying to ruin something for you, don't get me wrong. I wish you all the best luck.

A long distance relationship requires a lot of effort & trust.
If it's not from both sides, the relationship is doomed to fail.

I think long distance relationships suck, but hey thats me i'm a physical person. Need to feel dat pussy not see it, in a picture, you know?

"Keep trying and you will get what you want."

Don't be disappointed by what others say about long distances. Maybe what if she is ready to stay with you for the rest of her life? You never know.

21-09-2015, 08:40 PM

Aoki Wrote:

21-09-2015, 08:33 PM

xmxmusicrealm Wrote:

21-09-2015, 01:23 PM

Aoki Wrote: You should think about the future of the relationship. I'm sure you want to see her as often as possible, but croatia is far away from the US.

Yeah true, thanks for the advice :glasses:

Long-distance relationships fail most of the time, but I'm sure you already know that.
It might hurt, cause it's not going how you wanted it. As of now, you're in love with this girl, so you're going to do everything's possible to reach the goal what you want to have - to be with her.
But after some time (2-3 months) of your relationship you may get sad, because you're not able to see her as often as you want to.

From my personal experience, it's always better to end some things as soon as possible, because otherwise, it'll just hurt you more and more after some time and it's not easy to get out of this doom loop.

I'm not trying to ruin something for you, don't get me wrong. I wish you all the best luck.

"From my personal experience, it's always better to end some things as soon as possible, because otherwise, it'll just hurt you more and more after some time and it's not easy to get out of this doom loop."
I would've wished someone told me this 2 years ago. Thanks for the advice!

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21-09-2015, 09:27 PM

Horizon Wrote: I think long distance relationships suck, but hey thats me i'm a physical person. Need to feel dat pussy not see it, in a picture, you know?

lol no, no I don't know

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21-09-2015, 10:01 PM

zGeek Wrote: "Keep trying and you will get what you want."

Don't be disappointed by what others say about long distances. Maybe what if she is ready to stay with you for the rest of her life? You never know.

Yeah, true. We do have a lot in common. Right now I think I should focus on improving myself, more than chase after her. I've been down lately, and I think losing weight and getting shape will fix that. Thank you!

I personally wouldn't do it in form a video. but then again that is my general taste... it may be an age thing? I think it could be conceived as creepy? and I know its the last thing you would want to do is scare her off. ( or... do the video, but in a fun way, not romantic to start and then develop it further and making more things for her) just make it gradual.

I would maybe have a discussion about 'futures' talk to her about what she hopes to achieve? tell her what you are after.. aka a girlfriend, companion, see where it leads. Aoki is right, a long term/ long distance relationship is hard work, and can be very frustrating for both of you, but if its what you both want it could work out.

but yes, go easy on her.. don't bombarded her and be subtle in how you approach this subject. ^_^ Goodluck!