Serious Question

02-11-2015, 02:47 AM

Sexual Wrote:

02-11-2015, 02:43 AM

Addicted Wrote: I did last night, but I went with her.

Ever go without her?
Behind her back?

I broke up with her last night cause she was drunk af and got with my friend, so I just got with 3 other girls.

I think you should go with her, not alone.Because probably she will be jealous of you.

Just because you're in a relationship it doesn't mean that you have to do every minute of your life together.
You can still do the things you like on your own (for example going to a party). She has to respect that.

Absolutely, I don't see why you shouldn't . Don't not do something because of a relationship, if that's the case then end the relationship!

02-11-2015, 02:34 AM

Sexual Wrote: Is it normal to go to a party when your in a relationship.

A question that I don't know the answer too.

Your girlfriend should still accept you have a private life. It is normal, but maybe, she won't like it and she might break up with you, but still.. You must tell her that you have your private life, and you'll see true love if she accepts it or not..

Being in a relationship also includes trust on both ends of it. You should want to have a good time; so I say go for the party. Nobody can live your life for you, only you can do that so don't waste your young days because they won't be there forever. If it's a long-lasting relationship and things work out, there will be plenty of time in your elder days for you both to lounge around the house but for now you want to be active, stay fit, and most of all live life. Life is an adventure don't waste it in the same position.

Pretty much remember the all important rule of self control.

02-11-2015, 03:35 AM

Sexual Wrote:

02-11-2015, 03:31 AM

Nova Wrote:

02-11-2015, 03:11 AM

Sexual Wrote:

02-11-2015, 03:04 AM

Toucan Wrote:

02-11-2015, 02:47 AM

Sexual Wrote: Ever go without her?
Behind her back?

Doing something behind your Bf/Gf is not good. If she/he finds out it will be hard for them to trust which leads into relationship problems.

She went to a party behind my back and I got told.
Now is it right if I cannot trust her or...

Is this the first thing she has done to you? If so, give her a second chance to prove herself.

No it's not to be honest.

1. Her two friends come down from Nottingham, UK and she wanted me to come see them, I did and she wanted me to stay at her house, she left me outside her house whilst she fucked off till three in the morning and I had no money, I had no battery on my phone and couldnt get home.
   
2. I got ran over and she just fucked off to the cinema whilst my best friend acted as my girlfriend at the time.
   

My head hurts.

She sounds a bit selfish in this scenario. I would be upset in your position, and I would tell her how you felt at that time.

as in the general sense of the topic, couples can do things individually and go out to places, why the hell wouldn't you. Just because you are in a relationship your social life does not end.

So its a give and take, she goes, out and you go out etc.

But lying and ditching of people is not on, for one its childish, and two is very disrespectful.

What should be wrong going on a party even in a relationship?
What is your purpose of going to that party lol?

behind her back!! answer : None,