Serious tips on how to move on after a rejection

i am a man 22yo, not really good looking i'd say average, i was rejected from a girl i was crushing on for 4 years and this is not the first time that happens to me, i do not feel like trusting women anymore cause they have taken advantage of me many times for waay too long and even though i knew it i couldn't do anything, how do i move on and get over it? i mean i have too i just dont know how and it seems soo difficult, any tips?

just dont worry about it too much they wasnt the perfect one for you as you can notice, there will be better out there.

You should do rejection therapy. Once you go out and get rejected a lot youll quickly discover its not as big a deal as you think. And the things people say yes yo can be crazy too. Id love the courage to do this but I havent mustered it yet.

Focus on work/education/working out.

There's a reason why after breakups,people tend to look better; it's because they focus on themselves

Spend a few weeks focusing on yourself and further developing your skills and hobbies. I would also really recommend hanging out in groups of friends as much as you can. Try and meet new people through your friends, that really helped me forget about chasing and helps me stay happy.

14-04-2021, 02:14 AM

koumpou Wrote: i am a man 22yo, not really good looking i'd say average, i was rejected from a girl i was crushing on for 4 years and this is not the first time that happens to me, i do not feel like trusting women anymore cause they have taken advantage of me many times for waay too long and even though i knew it i couldn't do anything, how do i move on and get over it? i mean i have too i just dont know how and it seems soo difficult, any tips?

Once you go out and get rejected a lot youll quickly discover its not as big a deal as you think.
and don't keep a crush on someone for 4 years. it makes you miserable at the end. confess sooner.

Just focus on other things. Theres other girls that are different than him/her.

Work on yourself, give you some time and love, and don't go after the person that rejected u! Oh and, don't date for a while, give yourself a time

maybe because you're moving too fast? by that i mean that you're confessing to your crush a bit prematurely. I guess you can work on that. On moving on, i guess you have to find a distraction, maybe a hobby, a different girl, spending time with friends. These actions can help. Best of luck to you. I know you are feeling sad but the feeling will pass and you will eventually move on. There are many girls around and i assume that you are still young. A lot in life can happen still.

14-04-2021, 02:14 AM

koumpou Wrote: i am a man 22yo, not really good looking i'd say average, i was rejected from a girl i was crushing on for 4 years and this is not the first time that happens to me, i do not feel like trusting women anymore cause they have taken advantage of me many times for waay too long and even though i knew it i couldn't do anything, how do i move on and get over it? i mean i have too i just dont know how and it seems soo difficult, any tips?

don't think of them too much. try to avoid anything that makes you think of them. Music is one of them so try to change your music taste. shit when stuff like this happens