Y'know, what madeyou what you are now? What is the thing that drives you to have the goals and dreams you have now? Was it money, your parents,Cthulhu?
where i am now is because i got the first job that i came across, and have been doing the same job for the past 3 years. got a girlfriend who didn't like how unambitious i was, we split up after a year for other reasons
my mother knew what i wanted to do in life and told me she thought my girlfriend was the reason i wasn't pursuing my dreams. somehow convinced myself that it was true and now have the motivation to pursue my dream job, probably to make my mother proud.