Why the Imbalance...

Its normal, this behavior that some upgraded members have is on every forum I've been on. There are some though who don't really care about ranks and that like to converse with the regular users on the site. I don't really care about this myself if you're a cool person to talk with I'll chat with you on the forum or on the discord server. We all start somewhere so just don't mind and thank you for the S/O hehe. x)

01-03-2018, 02:23 PM

Gantai Wrote: I have no clue what a "yjcinenxt" is but this is really well-said man.

I wouldn't say that it's the case with all non-upgraded members but I always have a hard time actually talking to them in the sense of like becoming a friend with that person. Not to say an upgraded member wouldn't break the rules because well there are plenty that would and they still wouldn't be wasting their money because maybe they got upgraded by another. It's hard to tell especially because people change over time. Yeah, that doesn't happen overnight but people do 100% change all the time. I have no doubt there are good members who aren't upgraded who deserve to be upgraded and there are tons of people always looking to upgrade another individual.

You also have a valid point. People do change but some user's change to the better some change to the worse. You can't help them Gantai but you can help yourself. If you reach out to members and so kindness they will respect you 100%. If you ignore the user's though that in the future have (god talent) so to speak you'll feel bad. Showing everyone kindness and understanding is the best way and the only way how to get through people. Your a leader you show Newbies how it is and they will follow

imo i just find non upgraded members low quality, i've always felt that way and will always feel that way.

01-03-2018, 02:23 PM

Gantai Wrote: I have no clue what a "yjcinenxt" is but this is really well-said man.

I wouldn't say that it's the case with all non-upgraded members but I always have a hard time actually talking to them in the sense of like becoming a friend with that person. Not to say an upgraded member wouldn't break the rules because well there are plenty that would and they still wouldn't be wasting their money because maybe they got upgraded by another. It's hard to tell especially because people change over time. Yeah, that doesn't happen overnight but people do 100% change all the time. I have no doubt there are good members who aren't upgraded who deserve to be upgraded and there are tons of people always looking to upgrade another individual.

Yeah of course premium members could break the rules as well. Its just a higher chance with non upgraded ones because they have nothing to loose. Thanks for pointing out my mistake btw I fixed it xD

01-03-2018, 02:29 PM

MrPirate Wrote: You also have a valid point. People do change but some user's change to the better some change to the worse. You can't help them Gantai but you can help yourself. If you reach out to members and so kindness they will respect you 100%. If you ignore the user's though that in the future have (god talent) so to speak you'll feel bad. Showing everyone kindness and understanding is the best way and the only way how to get through people. Your a leader you show Newbies how it is and they will follow

Well, technically I joined like 8 days ago so I think the role of leader suits someone far greater than I.
I do definitely try to be kind to everyone but sometimes that's a lot harder than it seems. No one is perfect I must say that there will always be someone who doesn't like you or vise verse. It's hard to say really but if you want my 100% I find that most non-premium members are low quality with an exception because not everyone is like that. It's hard to say really how I look at the picture.

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01-03-2018, 02:33 PM

Ninjaibis Wrote: Yeah of course premium members could break the rules as well. Its just a higher chance with non upgraded ones because they have nothing to loose. Thanks for pointing out my mistake btw I fixed it xD

Indeed a non-premium member has a higher chance to break the rules but honestly, I find the rules are 90% common sense. I didn't read the rules granted I have been on multiple forums and there may be a few different rules on here than on other forums I have been on but I think the only rules I have broken is post really on the forums I have been on is post etiquette and that's really only cause I responded to things with like 3 words or something at the time.

My point is it shouldn't be that much more of a chance for a non-upgraded member than a premium because the rules are there for everyone but it's a lot of stuff that people should already know.

This is not taking into account the members that make accounts to intentionally spam and get banned. That's just they being annoying.

It's hard to judge people without a rank due to the fact that they might disappear within the next few days or weeks or even worse, they could be leechers.

01-03-2018, 02:15 PM

MrPirate Wrote: If they quote you in a good way, would you f** them up? I mean the people I quoted was for a purpose and it was not in a bad or vengeful way. But yes muffin your a god :lol:

Yo! Thanks for mentioning me in your thread as a honorable user, I didn't know I was known enough in the community to be considered that owo

yeha i would like to see some diversion too maybe include a few ranks for POC and women too even it up a bit :D

Could it be that you're just boring and people don't want to reply to you?

it's like interacting with people that are internet famous,it just feels wierd.