break ups

10-12-2015, 05:50 PM

ShadowedGrinner Wrote:

10-12-2015, 05:46 PM

Unicorn Wrote:

10-12-2015, 05:45 PM

ShadowedGrinner Wrote:

10-12-2015, 05:45 PM

Unicorn Wrote:

10-12-2015, 05:43 PM

ShadowedGrinner Wrote: God. You have a lot of quotes there.

Is that a good thing or a bad thing??

It hurts the eyes.

hahaha opps xD

Ish fien bb.
Just don't do so many quotes in the future. :'D

xD okay

TL;DR: sent nudes, broke up w person who received nudes, he hacked my 800+ contact skype and leaked them
Ummm my worst breakup has to be the first time I broke up with the guy that I broke up & got back together with 6 different times. (Don't do that shit, it's suicide to your emotions and mental health) Him and I met via a minecraft server when I was 12 and he was 15 (that sounds really bad but I was a major hoe back then, I'm not proud to admit this but I had sent nudes to him repeatedly) then after not being able to deal with what stress I felt like I was under with the constant pressure of "I can only make him happy by sending him nudes" I broke up with him, and got together with someone who made me happy and didn't want that stuff from me. The first guy (D) got really really /r e a l l y/ pissed off and upset and hurt and w/e else and forced himself into my skype (which at the time had over 800 contacts on it, multiple IRLs also) and leaked those pictures to E V E R Y O N E. At the time, I played on a minecraft mod-pack called "The Crafting Dead" and the pictures got leaked to some of those people. Short story: Someone that hated me got ahold of those and tried to blackmail me with them.
Spoiler: When I was getting blackmailed

10-12-2015, 06:34 PM

Molly Wrote: TL;DR: sent nudes, broke up w person who received nudes, he hacked my 800+ contact skype and leaked them
Ummm my worst breakup has to be the first time I broke up with the guy that I broke up & got back together with 6 different times. (Don't do that shit, it's suicide to your emotions and mental health) Him and I met via a minecraft server when I was 12 and he was 15 (that sounds really bad but I was a major hoe back then, I'm not proud to admit this but I had sent nudes to him repeatedly) then after not being able to deal with what stress I felt like I was under with the constant pressure of "I can only make him happy by sending him nudes" I broke up with him, and got together with someone who made me happy and didn't want that stuff from me. The first guy (D) got really really /r e a l l y/ pissed off and upset and hurt and w/e else and forced himself into my skype (which at the time had over 800 contacts on it, multiple IRLs also) and leaked those pictures to E V E R Y O N E. At the time, I played on a minecraft mod-pack called "The Crafting Dead" and the pictures got leaked to some of those people. Short story: Someone that hated me got ahold of those and tried to blackmail me with them.
Spoiler: When I was getting blackmailed

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That's fucking horrible. You should have told him that you WILL contact the authorities.

10-12-2015, 06:37 PM

ShadowedGrinner Wrote: -snip-

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That's fucking horrible. You should have told him that you WILL contact the authorities.

It was two years ago tbh, I kind of just gave up on it. They didn't get leaked and everyone felt horrible for me, I cried and stuff for a few days but just got over it. Him and I just broke up for the last time about a month or so ago and as fucked up as it is, I still love him. I fucked myself over, though, I couldn't get it through my head that "HEY. You shouldn't be such an immature cunt" because I (again, I'm not proud of this) cheated on him a lot :/ I couldn't tell you why I did it, and there's no excuse for it, but I guess the last time really put it into perspective, and I ended everything else I had going on. I still get mad at myself for it. EDIT: Although, even two years later it still gets brought up by one person I know called Manny. He still has them saved .-. he's nasty, and rude.

10-12-2015, 06:41 PM

Molly Wrote:

10-12-2015, 06:37 PM

ShadowedGrinner Wrote: -snip-

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That's fucking horrible. You should have told him that you WILL contact the authorities.

It was two years ago tbh, I kind of just gave up on it. They didn't get leaked and everyone felt horrible for me, I cried and stuff for a few days but just got over it. Him and I just broke up for the last time about a month or so ago and as fucked up as it is, I still love him. I fucked myself over, though, I couldn't get it through my head that "HEY. You shouldn't be such an immature cunt" because I (again, I'm not proud of this) cheated on him a lot :/ I couldn't tell you why I did it, and there's no excuse for it, but I guess the last time really put it into perspective, and I ended everything else I had going on. I still get mad at myself for it. EDIT: Although, even two years later it still gets brought up by one person I know called Manny. He still has them saved .-. he's nasty, and rude.

That is fucking disgusting.. He shouldn't have them saved still.
The part of you cheating... Sigh. Guess everyone makes mistakes though.

10-12-2015, 07:20 PM

ShadowedGrinner Wrote:

10-12-2015, 06:41 PM

Molly Wrote:

10-12-2015, 06:37 PM

ShadowedGrinner Wrote: -snip-

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That's fucking horrible. You should have told him that you WILL contact the authorities.

It was two years ago tbh, I kind of just gave up on it. They didn't get leaked and everyone felt horrible for me, I cried and stuff for a few days but just got over it. Him and I just broke up for the last time about a month or so ago and as fucked up as it is, I still love him. I fucked myself over, though, I couldn't get it through my head that "HEY. You shouldn't be such an immature cunt" because I (again, I'm not proud of this) cheated on him a lot :/ I couldn't tell you why I did it, and there's no excuse for it, but I guess the last time really put it into perspective, and I ended everything else I had going on. I still get mad at myself for it. EDIT: Although, even two years later it still gets brought up by one person I know called Manny. He still has them saved .-. he's nasty, and rude.

That is fucking disgusting.. He shouldn't have them saved still.
The part of you cheating... Sigh. Guess everyone makes mistakes though.

I regret it, what I had with the guy I wont ever find with anyone else, and I regret fucking it up. I also regret just being a piece of shit during that time in my life. Apologies for that though wouldn't cut it. I don't know why he still has them, tbh. He's a piece of shit, he makes my best friend feel like shit, and my other friends that were all at the time part of a group with him. None of us talk about him, though. I wish he still didn't have them. It's ridiculous, if he gets in a fight with me with his other friends he'll go into a skype call w them and be like "she's such a slut. I have her nudes." like yeah, from TWO YEARS ago, that weren't even sent to you lmao bye. I regret the whole situation though, but I wish I didn't still have feelings for this guy.

10-12-2015, 07:25 PM

Molly Wrote: -Snip.-

You recognize your mistakes, and hopefully won't do stuff like that in the future. You didn't really 'fuck shit up' if he was the scum, although cheating does dampen a relationship. You're a good girl, I'm sure you'll find something better with someone else.

10-12-2015, 07:26 PM

ShadowedGrinner Wrote:

10-12-2015, 07:25 PM

Molly Wrote: -Snip.-

You recognize your mistakes, and hopefully won't do stuff like that in the future. You didn't really 'fuck shit up' if he was the scum, although cheating does dampen a relationship. You're a good girl, I'm sure you'll find something better with someone else.

Idon't know what I wouldthink of myself if I did it in the future. I know that I messed up and really the 4th 5th and 6th times were just hopeless grabs at trying to find something again. I really hope that I find someone that can do for me again what he did. It was unique, and I could go on for ages about what I love about this guy, and how much he really meant to me and what losing him (6 times) did to me, but I could also go on about how much I hate him for other instances. We were both really messed up and fucked over the at-that-time relationship individually. Thank you, though. <3

10-12-2015, 07:26 PM

ShadowedGrinner Wrote:

10-12-2015, 07:25 PM

Molly Wrote: -Snip.-

You recognize your mistakes, and hopefully won't do stuff like that in the future. You didn't really 'fuck shit up' if he was the scum, although cheating does dampen a relationship. You're a good girl, I'm sure you'll find something better with someone else.

thats is terrible i am so sorry that he was suck a jerk bag. I really hope is steps on a lego and falls down a couple flights of stairs

10-12-2015, 07:40 PM

Unicorn Wrote:

10-12-2015, 07:26 PM

ShadowedGrinner Wrote:

10-12-2015, 07:25 PM

Molly Wrote: -Snip.-

You recognize your mistakes, and hopefully won't do stuff like that in the future. You didn't really 'fuck shit up' if he was the scum, although cheating does dampen a relationship. You're a good girl, I'm sure you'll find something better with someone else.

thats is terrible i am so sorry that he was suck a jerk bag. I really hope is steps on a lego and falls down a couple flights of stairs

Things happen.
I'm sure you've had friends go through similar and just don't know of it.