just deleted all my social network accounts!

So yeah. i just deleted all my social networks account
-instagram
-facebook (messenger)
-snapshat
-twitter
unistalled whatsapp, viber, wechat.
i don't know why but i'm uncomfortable with'em. posting pictures and everyone is like liking it.. it's more like making people pretend just to get some attention! and if you just unfollow them they just get mad and maybe they won't talk to you again!
i just don't like the shit they posting all the time and i don't feel to comment' or react to their shit posts with a heart!
it's causing too much issues to me. fuck it.. i'm good with forums.

There is an "ignore button" ya know.

Plus,even though I get where you are coming from,you are going to need them in the long run.
What are you going to say to a cutiepie that asks your social media?
(Hey you,here's my fax number. :*)
Just take the time to ignore and filter out what you don't want and carry on.(Maybe add some pages with memes related to your life).
Running away is only half a plan.
You can do it,but at what cost?

12-05-2020, 10:33 PM

Oathkeeper Wrote: There is an "ignore button" ya know.

Plus,even though I get where you are coming from,you are going to need them in the long run.
What are you going to say to a cutiepie that asks your social media?
(Hey you,here's my fax number. :*)
Just take the time to ignore and filter out what you don't want and carry on.(Maybe add some pages with memes related to your life).
Running away is only half a plan.
You can do it,but at what cost?

well, i'm a guy who gives no fucks. (lone_wolf) i have no interests about relationships, after my ex brock up with me and that's like ... 3 years ago.
i'm just done with them.. i never visited stories, never will. i just don't give a fuck about how they spend their day, or what about their (chicken plate) they post! i just don't get the idea of posting that every single day!
-Hey there! i'm having a really good meal today!
tomorrow! same shit.. and the funny part when they pm and ask you if you watched their story? or if you did read their posts! YES BITCH, AND GUESS WHAT? I DON'T GIVE A FUCK!
she deletes you. and never talk to you again!
pfff is it wrong for not having the same interests?

I believe your case is mostly described as "a bad friends" case.

Mate,it human to not stick with specific types of people and impossible to cater to everyone's needs.
No fucks is good,just in the right situation.Caring is really heart-warming if it reaches out to other people in the proper situation.

And don't worry,neither can I understand how people post stories/posts every.single.day.....
But such people exist, and that's a fact.Checking out if you watched it is a bit of an odd thing.Just play it cool and respond with like a "lol ya" after a couple of hours.They should get the memo.

Sounds more like a vicious circle if anything tbh.
Just find a new hobby.Go to the gym,learn to play something,go learn a new language.You will start meeting people from scratch and those people have no prejudice from the past you,nor do they care if you like them;they already have a life and this is a hobby.If your relationship levels up,that's completely up to you.

In a nutshell,what I am proposing is to keep calm,take a step back, think how you can go on from here and be open to new prospectives....who knows,maybe you will find yourself romantically involved again this way.

Just give this method a spin,and if it doesn't work/don't like it, throw it away and see what you can do differently.Don't get used to being passive.

I have done that for few months but I eventually came back. It is hard staying on top of things without Facebook since all of my Uni infos are shared on Facebook Group. Better option for me was using an old Nokia 6300 and accessing Facebook once daily.

straight chilling v4hl
I've been thinking about doing the same, but I've become too attached with them to stop doing it. Also because if I tried any other way to keep in contact with my friends they'd probably not be on it for too long.
now you can spend all of eternity with us

Congrats, It'll take a lot of will power to not hop back onto one of them one day

12-05-2020, 10:29 PM

v4hl Wrote: So yeah. i just deleted all my social networks account
-instagram
-facebook (messenger)
-snapshat
-twitter
unistalled whatsapp, viber, wechat.
i don't know why but i'm uncomfortable with'em. posting pictures and everyone is like liking it.. it's more like making people pretend just to get some attention! and if you just unfollow them they just get mad and maybe they won't talk to you again!
i just don't like the shit they posting all the time and i don't feel to comment' or react to their shit posts with a heart!
it's causing too much issues to me. fuck it.. i'm good with forums.

Good for you bud.. I dont use any of those social media sites.. I dont like them and I made a facebook a long time ago to talk with 2 people that were over seas but then my brother got back from iraq and since then I havnt been on.. The last time I was on facebook was 2011 I think.. I never have and never will like the main social media sites.. I'm proud of you. Pretty big step.. I know lots of people that cant live without it.

13-05-2020, 01:20 AM

JimmyBobbin65 Wrote: Congrats, It'll take a lot of will power to not hop back onto one of them one day

never will. wasn't active there, also never liked a page or joined a group. it's just a shit place.
if you want memes join reddit, if you want to learn somethin just brows udemy, or join a forum or idk!
social networks are shit.

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13-05-2020, 01:22 AM

Ninja Wrote: Good for you bud.. I dont use any of those social media sites.. I dont like them and I made a facebook a long time ago to talk with 2 people that were over seas but then my brother got back from iraq and since then I havnt been on.. The last time I was on facebook was 2011 I think.. I never have and never will like the main social media sites.. I'm proud of you. Pretty big step.. I know lots of people that cant live without it.

^__^" it's a shit place.
people bragging all the time, i don't know why or how but... can you imagine! taking a picture of your plate/food and share it in a story? do they even think about people whos watching their stories? i mean what can you expect of them when they see that picture of your food, or the way you pretending having a good time or idk..
it's just shit, and FAKE AF.
girls selling nudes on snap/insta? WTF is that? now they start to making a living with sharing/selling their nudes and Social media is just helping them to do that?
WTF is going on.

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13-05-2020, 01:01 AM

Sui Wrote: straight chilling v4hl
I've been thinking about doing the same, but I've become too attached with them to stop doing it. Also because if I tried any other way to keep in contact with my friends they'd probably not be on it for too long.
now you can spend all of eternity with us

we can meet outside and have a really sweet/good talk. i really miss that :disgusting:

12-05-2020, 10:29 PM

v4hl Wrote: So yeah. i just deleted all my social networks account
-instagram
-facebook (messenger)
-snapshat
-twitter
unistalled whatsapp, viber, wechat.
i don't know why but i'm uncomfortable with'em. posting pictures and everyone is like liking it.. it's more like making people pretend just to get some attention! and if you just unfollow them they just get mad and maybe they won't talk to you again!
i just don't like the shit they posting all the time and i don't feel to comment' or react to their shit posts with a heart!
it's causing too much issues to me. fuck it.. i'm good with forums.

smart. I just hate all the drama on social media.